Uuuuugh old people lecturing her about her lifestyle. One of the perks of living in the middle of nowhere was not having to put up with this.

"It's not like I had it easy back home either, you know. I got so few donations I was basically living in poverty, and everyone else still expected me to do all the work whenever there was any kind of crisis."

When being patronized, be sure to exaggerate your problems as much as possible.